Who is giving you relationship advice?
- Your mates?
- Your parents?
- Your siblings?
- Your work colleagues
Unfortunately everybody has an opinion about relationships!
Even if they’ve not really had one!
And if they’ll all offering YOU advise, who should you listen to? Who gives you relationship advice matters a lot because not all advice is created equal, and relationships are deeply personal and complex. The right advice can support your growth and happiness, while wrong can lead to unnecessary conflict, misunderstandings, or even self-doubt.
They aren’t you. What they’ve got might not be what you want.
Relationships are not static; they grow and change over time. Seeking support from someone who recognises this can help you navigate issues with flexibility and resilience. Rigid or judgmental advice often fails to account for the evolution that relationships naturally go through.
Think about Your Own Comfort and Trust Level- You’re more likely to open up and be vulnerable with someone you trust, which can lead to more honest conversations and helpful advice. People who genuinely care about your happiness will be more likely to give thoughtful and supportive guidance.
Focus on Empowering You- Good advice should leave you feeling more empowered and self-aware, not pressured or dependent. Those who respect your independence and growth will give advice that encourages you to make the best decisions for yourself.
In the end, it’s about finding advice that aligns with your values, empowers you, and respects your unique relationship journey. It can also be valuable to take in different perspectives while staying true to what feels right for you and your own relationship.
It’s personal taste.
There is no right or wrong.
It’s your life.
However….
If you want help with this then contact MPI Dating.
We won’t judge you.
We might be able to help you decide what you want.
It’s confidential.
Get in touch.