Variety is the Spice of Life!

Variety

You’ve had a couple of dates and everything is going well.

You like this new person & you think they like you.

Your first date was a few drinks in a local pub.

Your second date was a meal.

Now what?

Forget the alcohol & food & really get to know each other!

Go for a walk in the forest.

Go for a walk on a beach!

Take your shoes off and go for a paddle together.

Vary your dates.

Variety is the Spice of Life.

Have a think about where you can go.

Going on a variety of dates has a lot of benefits that can enhance both your dating experience and your connections.

Here are some reasons why mixing it up can make dating more enjoyable and meaningful:

Reveals Different Sides of Your Date’s Personality

  • Different activities bring out different qualities. For example, a museum date might reveal someone’s intellectual side, while a hike could show their adventurous spirit. This helps you see if they’re well-rounded and adaptable.

Creates Shared Memories

  • Unique and varied experiences create a shared bond and help you both form lasting memories, which is key for building connection. The more types of dates you go on, the more “inside stories” you’ll share.

Keeps Things Interesting

  • Routine can make dating feel stale. Trying new things keeps the excitement up and helps avoid the rut of “dinner and a movie” every time.

Tests Compatibility in Different Environments

  • A partner who’s fun in one setting might act differently in others. Variety shows how you both handle different situations, like teamwork in an escape room, patience on a nature trail, or enthusiasm at a concert.

Pushes You Outside Comfort Zones

  • Trying something new (like cooking together or rock climbing) encourages both people to show a more genuine side. The novelty can make the date more memorable and help you both relax by focusing on the activity.

Helps Identify Shared Interests and Values

  • Trying a range of activities can reveal shared passions you didn’t expect. If you both enjoy outdoor dates, it shows a mutual love for nature. If you both dislike a certain type of date, that can also bring you closer!

Creates Positive Experiences, Even If There’s No Romantic Spark

  • Even if the romantic connection isn’t there, a fun and unique date is still enjoyable. Plus, it allows you both to part ways on a positive note.

Have you tried any unique or memorable date activities yet?

Get in touch if you need some ideas!

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