You should be able to enjoy your date & stay safe.
Remember you don’t know this person yet, be friendly but don’t give away an personal details.
You can always arrange another date.
You should arrange another date- it’s too early to judge.
Don’t have too much to drink.
Meet in the afternoon or early evening- remember- we can arrange the venue for you.
Take your time. You shouldn’t invite your date to your home or go to their home.
There’s no rush to do this.
Staying safe on a date is important, especially when meeting someone new. Here are some practical steps to keep in mind:
Meet in a Public Place
- For the first few dates, choose a well-populated spot, like a coffee shop, restaurant, or park. Public places provide safety in numbers and give you an easy exit if things feel uncomfortable.
Arrange Your Own Transportation
- Plan to arrive and leave on your own so that you’re not reliant on your date for a ride. If you’re driving, park in a well-lit area. If you’re using rideshare, wait inside until your ride arrives and verify the driver’s details.
Set Boundaries and Trust Your Instincts
- Decide in advance what you’re comfortable with regarding physical boundaries and follow your gut if something feels off. If you feel uncomfortable at any point, don’t hesitate to leave or ask for help.
Limit Alcohol Consumption
- Alcohol can impair judgment, so try to keep drinks to a minimum, especially on a first date. If you do have a drink, keep it in sight at all times to avoid any tampering.
Have an Emergency Contact Ready
- Make sure your phone is charged and keep an emergency contact on speed dial. Some people set up a “safe word” with a friend or family member—a discreet code you can text if you need help.
Be Cautious with Personal Information
- Avoid sharing overly personal information on early dates, like your home address, financial details, or overly detailed family background. Share this only when you’re sure you can trust the person.
The most important thing is to trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t feel obligated to stay—your safety always comes first.
We can provide a chaperone if you’re nervous.
Please contact us at MPI if you need any more advice.